23 Best Oral Sex Toys of 2023 That Feel Just Like the Real Deal

According to former Cosmo sex and relationships editor Julia Pugachevsky, this one gave her a “totally new kind of orgasm,” and tbh, it’s easy to see why. Unlike many other clit-sucking vibrators, the SONA 2 uses sonic waves rather than suction to stimulate even the obscured parts of your clitoris, with 12 pleasure settings and a wide mouth to accommodate a range of anatomy. And for a lil more $$$, you can opt to try the SONA 2 Cruise.

• Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
• Length: 4.4″
• Run time: Up to 2 hours
• Waterproof? Yes

THE REVIEW: “WOW,” writes one buyer. “Beautiful, thoughtful design that literally sends you into another universe! It’s not too noisy (you’ll be the noisy one) and comfortable to hold while giving you incredible pleasure. It has different setting options, which are such fun, from gentle and light to deep insane pleasure. Totally worth it!”

An ideal choice for beginners, Aer uses pressure wave technology to mimic the flutter of a tongue and the suction of a mouth for a truly knee-buckling experience. You can also easily target the area with five different speeds and five pulsing patterns, and according to Cosmo‘s sex and relationships editor Veronica Lopez, it’ll give ya the feeling of “receiving actual oral heaven.”

• Material: Silicone
• Length: 4.7″
• Run time: Up to 1.5 hours on highest setting
• Waterproof? Yes

THE REVIEW: According to one review, “This is my first suction toy and I didn’t really know what to expect, but it took me to a happy place and beyond! Like leg shaking uncontrollable climax. Crazy good!”

Yep, this one is pricey, but it’s well worth your coin, pinky swear. With this luxe-looking toy, you’ll get to experience Womanizer’s pleasure air technology, 14 (!!) intensity levels, four hours of playtime on a single charge, and a v intuitive autopilot mode that lets your toy take control of your orgasm. One Cosmo writer said it made her orgasm “in less than two minutes,” so do with that info what ya will.

• Material: Silicone
• Length: 6.1″
• Run time: Up to 4 hours
• Waterproof? Yes

THE REVIEW: “I’ve had this for two years, and since I’ve had it, I haven’t bothered with anything else vibrating,” one review reads. “This gives waves of strong pleasure and avoids the buzzy feeling vibrators can have. It took a few goes to figure out the best head size and settings for me, and since then, it’s been incredible.”

Satisfyer’s toys are always really good quality and fan-favorites for the price point, and this vibe is no exception. The Pro 2 is a great choice for beginners, with 11 different speeds, an easy-to-grip handle, and a silicone ring made to surround your clit with suction and pulsations. It’s not the most intense toy in terms of suction, but as one Cosmo writer notes, it’s “soft, gentle, and supremely toe-curling.”

• Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
• Length: 6.5″
• Run time: Up to 2.5 hours
• Waterproof? Yes

THE REVIEW: According to one review, “My wife has already said that she is legit considering throwing it in the trash, for fear that her affinity for it may eventually adversely affect our marriage—she’s that attached to it already, after one 2-minute session. Pretty remarkable.”

Wanna experience a lil flicking action? Give this dual-ended device a try. Complete with 10 vibrations, 10 flicking patterns, and dual independent motors, the FLIQ provides A+ clitorial stim with its soft, tongue-like nub, as well as incredible internal stim with the flexible, insertable end. It’s basically two toys in one—and for a mere $35, too.

• Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
• Length: 8.3″
• Run time: Up to 2 hours
• Waterproof? No, only water-resistant

THE REVIEW: As one review reads, “If you are looking for one adult toy that blows everything else out of the water—this is it. Wow! I’ve tried things that vibrate in the past and wasn’t impressed. This one is all I need—nothing else comes close. It has a long battery life and multiple settings for both vibration and flicking. The flicking bit is very soft to the touch, [and] the whole thing is easy to clean and comes with a storage bag.”

Pretty, petite, and oh-so-powerful, this cutie from Unbound has earned over 2,200 five-star reviews for a reason: It gets sh*t done. You’ll loooove that it’s waterproof, rechargeable, equipped with five intensity settings, and fairly quiet, too. And just saying, as someone with an extensive collection of Unbound toys, this one remains my personal fave.

• Material: Silicone
• Length: 3″
• Run time: Up to 3 hours
• Waterproof? Yes

THE REVIEW: One tester writes, “Without getting too graphic, I honestly couldn’t seem to put it down once I started it up. Get this. It is one of the few online purchases possible out there that will actually change your life.”

If you like a little (or a lot!) of tongue action, this is the toy ya need to get. Given its name, you can expect this toy to French kiss your bits very passionately—just look at that tongue-like design! And with six different settings and a three-hour run time, you can go all night long. Can you say, oui oui!

• Material: Silicone
• Length: 6.3″
• Run time: Up to 3 hours
• Waterproof? Yes

THE REVIEW: “Well, this one surprised me,” writes one reviewer. “The touch is definitely different but it feels so good, especially if you add some lubricant. The high speed really gets you over the edge while the lower [ones] are great for building intensity. It’s a slow burn, but oh so explosive. If you like oral, this is pretty much better.”

The latest version of the fan-fave LELO ORA uses rotating “pleasure nodes” and firmer, faster movements to feel like the most realistic fake-tongue toy ever. The tongue nubbin rotates, vibrates, has 12 settings, is totally waterproof, and is super quiet to boot. Yes, it’s pricey, but it’s beloved for a reason—plus, it’ll look so ~fancy~ on your nightstand.

• Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
• Length: 3.4″
• Run time: Up to 1 hour
• Waterproof? Yes

THE REVIEW: “I was looking for a toy that would mimic the sensation of oral sex, and let me tell you, it’s pretty dang close!!!” raves one customer. “Best purchase ever. 10/10 would recommend.”

Another great pick from Womanizer, the internet-famous Pro40 is sleek, slim, waterproof, and wickedly powerful. It’s equipped with six intensity levels, so you can find the right setting for you and reach ecstasy at lightning speed—and best of all, it’ll only set you back $80.

• Material: Silicone
• Length: 6.5″
• Run time: Up to 4 hours
• Waterproof? Yes

THE REVIEW: “This is an absolute gift from the goddesses who developed such an incredible technology,” reads one review. “Let me tell, this will absolutely suck your soul through your lady parts and bring you to heaven. I don’t have another way to describe it. It is by far the most amazing sex toy I ever purchased. Never getting any other kind again. This is all you need!!”

Yep, this lil device blew up on TikTok for a reason. This toy uses 10 suction and vibration patterns to stimulate your clit, and it’s designed with a bendy internal attachment so you can wear it during partnered sex. A win-win! Plus, it’s remote-control operated, so you can let your partner take the reins.

• Material: Silicone
• Length: 7.2″
• Run time: Up to 1 hour
• Waterproof? No, only water-resistant

THE REVIEW: “I purchased the OG Pro 2 and I’m so glad I did!” notes one tester. “This toy is awesome! One side goes exactly where you want it, [and] the other sucks—and I mean in a great way. First use of this toy and I knew I found a new favorite. It left me shaking, happy, and so satisfied. Oh, and it has a remote control!”

Another TikTok-famous vibe, this popular bud pulses air and vibrates simultaneously, and with seven knee-buckling functions, the Rose is truly one of the most powerful air pulsation toys on the market. Just a warning: If you’re someone who’s clitorally sensitive, then the Rose is not for you, bb.

• Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
• Length: 2.3″
• Run time: Up to 45 minutes on highest setting
• Waterproof? No, only splash-proof

THE REVIEW: As one tester writes, “I never leave a review for things, but this time, one deserves a review. I have always been some who needs the very highest setting on a vibrator, and this is my first clit sucker. I came after a few times of trial and error on the very first setting. My legs were even slightly trembling. It feels exactly like oral sex, if not a little better. You can really feel that thing suck and blow on your clit.”

For a slightly less $$$ version of the best-selling INYA Rose, give this palm-sized playmate a whirl. With 10 pulsing settings, a compact size, vibrating petals, and a totally waterproof design, the plusOne Rose Arouser is well worth your $25—and while the air pulses are on the gentler side, they still get the job done.

• Material: Silicone
• Length: 2.6″
• Run time: Up to 1.5 hours
• Waterproof? Yes

THE REVIEW: “If you haven’t bought this yet, you are missing out!” one review reads. “I’m so impressed with all the different settings and the long battery life. And the cost is absolutely unbeatable. The rose is a fraction of the price of other toys I’ve owned, and it is easily the front-runner!”

Mini but mighty, this handheld tool from Cake comes equipped with 10 different suction modes for 360-degree clitoral stim, ranging from a soft tickle to serious sucking action. Despite its dainty, palm-sized design, this Little Sucker packs a serious punch—but since it uses air pulse technology to simulate a sucking sensation, it won’t leave ya feeling numb.

• Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
• Length: 3.8″
• Run time: Up to 70 minutes
• Waterproof? Yes

THE REVIEW: “I’ve always felt like clitoral stimulation felt good but it alone couldn’t take me anywhere,” writes one reviewer. “This toy changed it all! I let it create that little seal of suction and I was done in less than 60 seconds. It doesn’t feel like oral—it is so much more intense.”

TBQH, suction vibrators can get a lil noisy when they’re not pressed against your body—but you don’t have to worry about loud sucking sounds with this device. Its five vibration modes and five suction intensities are all impressively quiet, and the ergonomic build allows you to *perfectly* align your index finger along its side. Oh, and it comes with a charging case, so you can juice it up on the go.

• Material: Silicone
• Length: Not listed
• Run time: Up to 1.5 hours
• Waterproof? Yes

THE REVIEW: “Honestly, I’m blown away!” one buyer raves. “This is by far my favorite toy. The suction is amazing, and I really like how the noise is not loud. The size is perfect! It’s small and discreet, and the color is absolutely beautiful. I love the little case it comes in as well. It makes it easy to take anywhere—you can literally just have it in your handbag. 10/10 I recommend!!!”

It’s giving ~versatility.~ Featuring a licking tongue on one end and a powerful vibrating shaft on the other, this two-for-one toy comes packed with nine speeds and functions on each end that’ll allow you to vibe as you please. And while it’s not flexible enough for you to use both ends simultaneously, it’ll still give ya plenty of options for play.

• Material: Silicone
• Length: 8.4″
• Run time: Up to 80 minutes
• Waterproof? Yes

THE REVIEW: “The tongue action is amazing,” one tester raves. “You [can] insert it anally and let it toss your salad, [and] when you’re finished with that, you can turn it around and use it as a classic vibrator.”

Looking for something a lil less intense? Using gentle sonic waves and eight pleasure settings, the SILA is designed to spread equal intensity across the w-h-o-l-e clitoris, and its larger mouth means it’s better equipped to fit a wider variety of anatomy. Unlike the powerful SONA 2, this one is better for slow-building orgasms—and if you prefer to let you toy take the reins, then go with the SILA Cruise.

• Materials: Silicone and ABS plastic
• Length: 3.1″
• Run time: Up to 2 hours
• Waterproof? Yes

THE REVIEW: “This toy is so approachable and very user friendly,” one tester writes. “I also feel like it’s more accommodating to a wider variety of anatomy types. The opening of this toy easily fits my clit, as well as the areas around my clit. So, the stimulation is easily distributed. It’s also super quiet and compact. You won’t regret getting this!”

The We-Vibe Melt is one of the slimmer profile suction vibes and is designed as such so it can fit more comfortably between two bodies during sex. There’s also 12 vibration modes and a low-battery indicator so you have some warning before potentially being heartbroken by a dying vibrator right before you climax. Oh, and did we mention that it can be controlled from legit anywhere using the We-Connect app?

• Material: Silicone
• Length: 5″
• Run time: Up to 2 hours
• Waterproof? Yes

THE REVIEW: “First time I used it was pure bliss,” notes one tester. “I couldn’t believe how it made me feel. With it having a little bit of suction and vibration at the same time, it had me squirming all over the bed. Worth the money. It’s not like any toy I’ve ever had.”

Raise your hand if you <3 blended orgasms 🙋‍♀️. This flexible bb delivers simultaneous internal stim and clit suction using pleasure wave technology, and it comes with even stronger vibrations and a quieter performance than the original AirVibe (plus remote-control functionality). Best of all, it includes a portable case that doubles as a charger. Genius!!

• Material: Silicone
• Length: Not listed
• Run time: Up to 1.5 hours
• Waterproof? Yes (except the remote)

THE REVIEW: “Truly have never come so quickly in my life—I LOLed out of disbelief,” one review reads. “Took me a minute or so to get the right angle for the suction to really do its thing, but lemme tell you, YOU’LL KNOW when it’s in the right spot. I love the colors, the case, and the remote option. I feel like this toy has ascended me into sex toy heaven.“

A $30 clit sucker that’s lightweight, ergonomically-shaped, and seriously powerful? You have our attention. Compact and portable, this cutie features three power levels and 10 suction modes for you to try—and thanks to its easy-to-hold design, you don’t have to worry about your wrist giving up before you get off.

• Material: Silicone
• Length: 5.5″
• Run time: Up to 70 minutes
• Waterproof? Yes

THE REVIEW: “My new favorite toy!” reads one review. “It’s the perfect toy to use with your partner or those lonely nights by yourself. The suction power is amazing and definitely gets the job done. The shape helps you get it into the right position and hold it comfortably as long as you need. This toy definitely checks all the right boxes.”

Yes, it’s pretty, but this luxe clitoral massager doesn’t just look good—it also features a soft silicone tip that quickly waggles up and down like a tongue (and by quickly, we mean up-to-75-swings-per-second quick). It’s compact, water-resistant, rechargeable, packed with several different modes and functions, and even embellished with a genuine Swarovski crystal—and best of all, it won’t exceed 50 decibels, even on the highest setting.

• Materials: Silicone, ABS plastic, and Swarovski crystal
• Length: 5.7″
• Run time: Up to 3 hours
• Waterproof? No, just splashproof

THE REVIEW: “I like a more intense feeling with my vibrators, and let me tell you, this toy delivers,” one reviewer notes. “It takes a bit to work out the best place to position it, but once you find the sweet spot, you’re golden. If you’re a fan of pulsation, this toy is for you.”