18 Best Remote-Control Vibrators for the Most High-Tech Orgasms of Your Life

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Vibrators have come a long, long way from the OG Magic Wand, which plugged into the wall (!!) and looked more like a neck massager than a sex toy. Nowadays, you’ll find vibes of all shapes and sizes, including those you can take on the go, use in the shower, and even (*drum roll pls*) control with a remote. Yes, the future is here, and it is bright, friends. Remote-control vibrators are not only great for pinpointing the EXACT pattern and vibration setting you want—they’re also a lifesaver when it comes to ensuring you don’t need to fiddle with any buttons right on the brink of an orgasm. Plus, these toys mean you can add vibration and other sensations into the mix while keeping things as close to hands-free as possible.

Another bonus: If you’re looking to introduce new elements of teasing into your sex life, then you’ll love that many of these remote vibrators can be controlled from a distance so your partner can totally take the reins. Pretty neat, huh? Ya, it might be a few more years until Siri or Alexa (or both) can cycle through vibration patterns and speeds, but these remote-controlled sex toys will make masturbation way, WAY easier *and* introduce a whole new level of partner play. Here are a few of our favorites, ICYWW:

Our top picks for remote-control vibrators in 2022:

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    OG Pro2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator Tracy’s Dog

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Ahead, all the best remote vibrators that $$ can buy, as well as everything you should know about remote-control vibes.

best couples vibrator


  • amazing pleasure for both partners

The TIANI 3 is a super-powerful couples vibrator that’s designed to be worn like a paper clip on your vulva. Two vibrating motors mean you feel targeted clitoral stimulation and internal stimulation, and can wear it while having sex with a partner or alone. Plus, the easy-to-use remote means you can dial in to JUST the right vibration setting.

THE REVIEWS: “I purchased this about a month ago, and my fiancé and I love it!” reads one review. “It’s soooo much fun to be able to give him the ‘power’ while I enjoy the ‘pleasure.’ The vibes are strong and the material is soft to the touch.”

best clit-sucking vibrator

OG Pro2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator

  • internal arm allows for hands-free use
  • some find the insertable section too girthy

Made famous by TikTok, this two-in-one clitoral sucking vibrator has 10 suction modes, 10 vibrating patterns, and a bendy internal attachment that you can position however you’d like. And unlike many similar clit-sucking toys, it’s remote-control operated, so you can let your partner take control.

THE REVIEWS: “Love it. Literally meet god every time and my partner loves the remote control,” one reviewer writes. “Even did positions with the toy as well. Enhances our sex life even when he’s across the country. Would highly recommend.”

best vibrating penis ring


  • has powerful motors in each ear
  • may not fit all penis girths

This silicone cock ring has a unique rabbit ear design meant to cup the balls and provide extra stimulation aaaaaall over. You’ll love that it’s remote-control operated, provides one hour of play per charge, and is totally waterproof and washable.

THE REVIEWS: “I can only come to orgasm from clit stimulation—using this while making love to my hubby means we can both get off at the same time,” reads one review. “I love holding the remote and playing with the settings mid-making love.”

best egg vibrator

Amorette Remote-Controlled Vibrating Egg

  • carrying case doubles as a remote
  • can be tricky to find the right position

In addition to being TRULY gorgeous, this pretty egg-style vibe from ZALO’s Sweet Magic line provides both internal and external stimulation with its several vibration modes and fluttering wings. As a bonus, the v convenient storage case doubles as a remote, which can be controlled with buttons *and* motion control.

THE REVIEWS: “I love this toy—it’s super soft and the vibrations are superb!” writes one tester. “I like that you can adjust the strength of the vibrations because I like to use it on lower setting when I use it as a ‘teaser’ with my partner for foreplay. When I use it alone, I use it on higher setting and it feels amazing!”

best panty vibrator


  • uses a magnet to stay in place
  • vibes may be too gentle for some

For those looking for a panty vibrator, the Moxie by We-Vibe is great for a few reasons. First, there’s a cool magnetic attachment, so it can work with any pair of undies or panties. Second of all, it comes with both a physical remote control and can also be controlled via the We-Connect app.

THE REVIEWS: According to one reviewer, “I wasn’t too sure about getting this bc how strong can a wearable be? But omg. Moxie vibrates so much and so deeply it’s amazing. Very quiet too!”

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Elmer Bullet Vibrator with Remote Control

  • budget-friendly but still super effective
  • remote can be tricky to operate

A lil thicker than your average bullet vibe, this cute toy features a cool ribbed design for better stimulation, as well as a string loop for easy removal and a contoured shape that feels oh-so-comfy—even after you put control into your partner’s hands.

THE REVIEWS: “Truly a fantastic toy,” reads one review. “The size is perfect and the silicone is velvety soft. There are tons of vibration settings, some of which are very strong. It can hold a charge for months with regular use and is rechargeable. The separate remote is a huge plus.”

best prostate vibrator


  • features two powerful motors

Willing to shell out the big bucks for some luxury? Then you need to check out LELO’s best-selling prostate massager, which is considered royalty in the world of prostate play. It comes with a little rechargeable remote and dual motors, and it’s also fully waterproof, so shower play is an option.

THE REVIEWS: “My boyfriend loves this so much,” says one reviewer. “We use it in the shower together and have a blast! We noticed that when we tilt the remote…it intensifies the pulses. Such great fun.”

best vibrating butt plug


  • provides deep rumbly vibrations
  • may be too small for those experienced with anal play

Looking for deep, rumbly anal vibes? Then get this remote-controlled vibrating butt plug from We-Vibe, which is rechargeable, waterproof, perfectly girthy, and—like many We-Vibe toys—able to pair with both the included remote and the We-Connect app.

THE REVIEWS: According to one review, “If you’re new to anal toys, this is going to make you love them. The vibration modes are unique and each gives you a different sensation as you move. Definitely made my sex life hotter.”

best vibrating dildo

Lifelike Lover Classic Remote Control Dildo

  • definitely not the quietest toy

This eight-inch suction cup vibrating dildo comes with a 10-function remote so you can plant that sucker on a hard surface and get humpin’ hands-free. It’s also waterproof and USB rechargeable, and it can fit into a harness for use as a strap-on.

THE REVIEWS: “My wife absolutely loved it,” reads one review. “We tried different positions and they all worked for her. Suction cup was very good and the vibration strength was excellent. We found it very exciting that I was in control of the vibrations.”

best budget vibrator

Couples Vibrator

  • a lil tricky to keep in place during sex

Not looking to drop big money on a high-tech toy? Then get this hiiighly rated option from PHANXY, which looks (and works!) a lot like the TIANI DUO but for less than $30—and yep, it’s rechargeable, waterproof, and all that good stuff.

THE REVIEWS: “In my opinion this is one of the best clitoral stimulators!” reads one review. “I love being able to control the levels of intensity with the remote, and placement was very comfortable. It didn’t take long for me to get an ‘O’ and I was able to conveniently kick up the speed with remote during my climax to maximize it.”

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Pulse III Duo

  • can help people with penises get erect
  • not as easy to incorporate into partnered sex

Remember, you don’t always have to be on the receiving side of a remote controlled vibrator to have some fun. This stroker is designed to be worn on flaccid or erect penises and has two motors, which provide deep, oscillating vibrations. It’s also completely waterproof, and that’s always a bonus.

THE REVIEWS: “I’ve never been one to use an aid in my masturbating but this toy intrigued me,” notes one tester, adding, “It is a snug, but comfortable fit. It made my climax much more intense.”

best vibrating kegel ball

Pulsy Playball

  • discreet and multi-purpose
  • a little on the noisy side

Looking for a Kegel trainer that’ll bring ya pleasure while also strengthening your pelvic floor muscles? Feast your eyes on this lil beaut, which can be used for both internal and external stimulation and turns into a hands-free experience with the help of the remote.

THE REVIEWS: “High quality—a big plus for remote control,” says one tester. “I recommend trying—for me, it’s a novelty that changed my life.”

best bullet vibrator

Secret Surprise Remote Control Bullet Vibrator

Coming in at only $35, this sleek, travel-friendly, remote bullet vibe from Lovehoney is le perfect choice for discreet fun on the go. It’s waterproof, whisper-quiet, and features 10 vibe patterns with six intensity levels, and just look how cute!

THE REVIEWS: “We love remote controlled toys—it’s a major turn on for me and my husband for him to be in control—so this bullet is perfect!” says one reviewer. “We use it around the house as foreplay and it’s very discreet [with] hardly any noise.”

best rabbit vibrator


  • incredibly strong and versatile
  • base isn’t as sturdy as some would like

Looking for a remote-operated rabbit vibe? Look for further than this harness-compatible stunner from Femme Funn, which features 360 degrees of rotation, eight vibration speeds, three rotation speeds, AND a remote control. What more could ya want??

THE REVIEWS: One tester writes, “I have to formally acknowledge the fact that, the first time I used this toy, I actually legitimately came within 60 seconds.”

best vibrating anal beads

Triplet Anal Beads

  • great for butt stuff newbies
  • magnetic charger not as strong as some would like

If you’ve been looking to experiment with anal beads, then this vibrating bead-like butt plug is something you’ve got to try. It features flexible tapered-size beads, an easy grip handle, and two powerful motors, and it also comes with a remote, so no awkward reaching behind you during solo play.

THE REVIEWS: According to one tester, “If the thought of putting anything up your butt intimidates you, these anal beads are a great place to start. The first to go in are very small, and you don’t have to put them all in at once. The vibrations also help ensure your experience is pleasurable, not painful.”

best butterfly vibrator

The Butterfly Effect

  • definitely not the quietest toy

Okay but…how precious is this vibe??? In addition to being very, very cute, this dual vibrating butterfly massager targets multiple erogenous zones with two motors and deep, powerful vibes that’ll leave ya quaking.

THE REVIEWS: “I love it,” says one tester. “Gets me there every time. I really enjoy the remote control, especially when my husband controls it. The flutter of the clit stimulator is awesome. Lots of levels of vibration.”

best vibrating strap-on

Supersex Strapless Strap-On Vibrator

  • great choice for hands-free play
  • can be difficult to keep in once wet

Great for pegging or strap-on play without a harness, this vibin’ double-sided dildo is non-phallic, whisper-quiet, and super rigid, so both partners can get stimulation from it. It’s also waterproof and rechargeable, and the remote makes for extra-exciting play.

THE REVIEWS: “This toy is absolute genius with incredible design and construction,” says one tester. “My girlfriend and I were transported to another world..We cannot wait to try it again.”

best hands-free vibrator

VibePad 2

  • great for those with limited mobility
  • not the most travel-friendly

When it comes to hands-free sex toys, the VibePad 2 is in its own damn category. Made with velvety soft silicone, this rideable grinding pad provides incredible external stimulation along with warming and licking functions, all of which can be controlled with a handy remote.

THE REVIEWS: “OMG this feels amazing,” one reviewer says. “I am so glad I added it to my collection of vibrators…I am very pleased in more ways than one.”

How to choose the best remote-control vibrator

According to certified sexologist Gigi Engle, remote vibrators are great for taking control of your own experience during solo play, but what really makes ’em great is how they “allow you and your partner to control each other’s sensations.” As she explains, “You can tease your partner by controlling the speed, pattern, and vacillation of their toy, which is a little dom/sub and can make things really hot.”

And while app-controlled sex toys may be a bit more convenient (since you can access the remote from your phone and don’t have to worry about losing it), bringing a phone into le boudoir can sometimes kill the mood…which is what makes remote-operated toys so great. They’re also useful when you don’t have access to Wi-Fi or a reliable internet connection, which happens!

A few things to keep in mind when picking out your high-tech new toy:

Consider the material

When it comes to vibrators, the material matters, ’cause you def don’t want to irritate your most intimate areas with a poorly-made toy. It’s best to steer clear of vibes and remotes made with PVC, as those tend to be more porous and pretty much impossible to fully sanitize (not to mention they may contain toxic chemicals called phthalates). Instead, Engle suggests looking for toys “made from body-safe or medical-grade silicone,” which work great with water-based lubes.

Figure out the remote range

Unlike Bluetooth-enabled vibrators that can be controlled from any distance, vibrators with physical remotes can usually only be operated from so far. Make sure you look at the maximum distance allowed between the sex toy and remote before buying to see if it will suit whatever ~escapades~ you and your partner have in mind.

Check out the bonus features

As with all sex toys, the best remote vibrators tend to have a few key features: They’re fully waterproof (so you can use ’em in the tub or shower), they’re USB rechargeable, and they tend to have several different vibration patterns and strengths, ’cause variety is the spice of life. Likewise, it’s also helpful to look for a remote vibrator that’s enabled by both a physical remote *and* an app, so you don’t “wind up digging around your drawers looking for the remote,” as Engle points out.

How we chose our best remote-control vibrators

Pleasure is hiiiighly diverse, and what feels amazing for someone may not get the job done for someone else. That’s why we rounded up a whole range of popular remote-control vibes, from gentle sex toys for beginners to seriously powerful vibrators that’ll leave your legs quaking.

Here at Cosmo, we have v high standards when it comes to sex toy recs. Every one of our round-ups adheres to the 15 Percent Pledge and includes toys for all budgets and bodies. And you better believe we read those product reviews (and test many of the brands IRL) so you don’t have to do it yourself.

Corinne Sullivan is a digital writer and editor who covers a variety of beats, including lifestyle, entertainment, sex and relationships.

Sex & Relationships Editor Carina Hsieh lives in NYC with her French Bulldog Bao Bao — follow her on Instagram and Twitter • Candace Bushnell once called her the Samantha Jones of Tinder • She enjoys hanging out in the candle aisle of TJ Maxx and getting lost in Amazon spirals. 

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