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best overall mattress for sex
Saatva Classic Mattress
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best overall mattress for sex
Saatva Classic Mattress
Hate sinking into your mattress? That won’t be a problem with this bb from Saatva. Available in three different levels of firmness and two height options, this springy option combines two layers of coils, two layers of polyfoam, and a thin layer of memory foam to provide the *perfect* balance of pressure relief and bounce. Plus, the dual-coil design allows for tons of airflow, so you don’t have to worry about waking up in a pool of sweat.
- Height: 11.5″ or 14.5″
- Firmness: Soft, medium firm, or very firm
- Sizes: Twin, twin XL, full, queen, king, Cal king, split king, split Cal king
- Trial period: 365 nights
THE REVIEW: “We decided to take a chance with Saatva and are so glad we did!” one tester writes. “The luxury firm is the perfect combination of softness and firmness, [with] enough bounce to be comfortable but not enough to be disruptive to another person. We’ve had the mattress for 2 weeks so far and have slept better than we have for a long time! The price is a definite bonus, too!”
For a nice blend of supportive foam and gentle pressure relief, you probs wanna go with the Nectar Hybrid mattress. The mattress is topped with a quilted cooling cover, underneath which you’ll find gel-infused memory foam, a bouncy layer of pocketed coils with extra edge support, and a sturdy foam base layer. Oh, and can we just talk about that under-$1,000 price tag??
- Height: 12″
- Firmness: Medium firm
- Sizes: Twin, twin XL, full, queen, king, Cal king
- Trial period: 365 nights
THE REVIEW: According to one reviewer, “Upgraded from an old, pure foam mattress. Was looking for a hybrid mattress that wouldn’t break the bank and found it here. Perfectly firm with some bounce, sleeps cool, [and] improved my sleep immediately. Strongly recommended.”
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best pressure-relieving mattress for sex
Helix Dusk
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best pressure-relieving mattress for sex
Helix Dusk
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Helix offers a whole line of A+ hybrid mattresses—but if getting it on is your priority, Dusk is the way to go. Sliiightly softer than most hybrids, this one boasts a latex-foam hybrid layer that gives it a responsive, bouncy feel, followed by pressure-relieving memory foam, a pocketed coil layer, and a stabilizing foam base. Basically, it’s the plush yet playful mattress of your dreams.
- Height: 11.5″
- Firmness: Medium firm
- Sizes: Twin, twin XL, full, queen, king, Cal king
- Trial period: 100 nights
THE REVIEW: “It seems counterintuitive, but this mattress is bouncy yet super soft and plush,” notes one tester. “My partner believed she only liked super firm, but one night of sleep changed her mind. And after some further recreational time, we were totally sold.”
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best soft mattress for sex
Leesa Original Hybrid
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best soft mattress for sex
Leesa Original Hybrid
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You get the best of both worlds with this cushy yet supportive mattress from Leesa. Because it’s topped with a quilted knit cover, this bb is amazingly breathable, and beneath that cover, you’ll find two pressure-relieving foam layers, a responsive support layer of pocketed coils, and a sturdy high-density foam base. The result: a mattress that’ll deliver both hug and bounce.
- Height: 11″
- Firmness: Medium firm
- Sizes: Twin, twin XL, full, queen, king, Cal king
- Trial period: 100 nights
THE REVIEW: According to one reviewer, “I wanted a mattress that would be plush and supportive, yet springy. I decided to try the Leesa Original Hybrid, and I’m so glad I did. It feels absolutely premium while costing only a fraction of what I’d spent on my last mattress. It’s a true hybrid, with springs that add a pleasant bounce without being heard or felt. A wonderful value.”
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best value mattress for sex
Emma Hybrid Comfort
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best value mattress for sex
Emma Hybrid Comfort
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Want a supportive, high-profile mattress at a v reasonable price? Emma is the place to go. Designed by German engineers, this slightly-firmer-than-average pick uses open-cell foam to isolate motion and encourage airflow, as well as an ergonomic system of coils that adapts to your sleeping position and keeps your body aligned. Great sex followed by undisturbed sleep, here you come!!
- Height: 13″
- Firmness: Slightly firm
- Sizes: Twin, twin XL, full, queen, king, Cal king
- Trial period: 365 nights
THE REVIEW: “Finally, a mattress that gets it right!” writes one reviewer. “It’s noticeably taller than my previous one, [and it] feels and looks luxurious. The top is super plush but balanced with just the right firmness. Fell asleep in minutes and woke up refreshed. Highly recommend!”
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best bouncy mattress for sex
Nolah Natural 11″
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best bouncy mattress for sex
Nolah Natural 11″
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I’ve had this mattress for six months now, and let me tell ya, I’ve never been sleeping better. Since it’s made with hole-punctured Talalay latex rather than foam, this bb is bouncy and breathable—plus, it features an organic cotton cover, layers of (surprisingly cooling) organic wool, and recycled steel pocketed coils. You won’t find a better all-natural hybrid mattress for this price, promise.
- Height: 11″
- Firmness: Medium firm
- Sizes: Twin, twin XL, full, queen, king, Cal king, split king
- Trial period: 120 nights
THE REVIEW: “This mattress has changed my sleep for the better!” one tester notes. “It’s just right, super comfortable, has a little give, and the springs give it some firmness without making the mattress hard as a rock. This mattress is wonderful! So glad we found it!”
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Looking for a firmer mattress? Rather than padding its individually-wrapped coils with thick comfort layers, the Keetsa Plus simply uses one-inch layers of proprietary BioFoam (which requires less petroleum to produce than memory foam) and high-density foam, giving you plenty of support and pliability. It’s simple, affordable, and comfortable, and if you like a lil more cushion, then you can always upgrade to the Keetsa Pillow Plus.
- Height: 9″
- Firmness: Firm
- Sizes: Twin, full, queen, king, Cal king
- Trial period: 90 nights
THE REVIEW: “Holy moly, my mattress is so comfortable,” raves one reviewer. “I look forward to sleeping in it every night, and I never want to get out of bed in the morning, either. It’s firm enough for adequate support and cushiony enough for comfort.”
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best cooling mattress for sex
Amerisleep AS3 Hybrid
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best cooling mattress for sex
Amerisleep AS3 Hybrid
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The problem with a lot of foam mattresses: They trap heat…which def isn’t ideal during ~sexy time.~ But that won’t be a problem with the AS3 Hybrid, which uses proprietary Bio-Pur material with an open-cell design that allows more air to circulate. Other cooling perks include the bouncy pocketed coil system and cool-to-the-touch microfiber cover.
- Height: 12″
- Firmness: Medium firm
- Sizes: Twin, twin XL, full, queen, king, Cal king, split king
- Trial period: 100 nights
THE REVIEW: As one tester explains, “We wanted a bed with some bounce, support, and cushion all at once. We didn’t think that was too much to ask for—though it was surprisingly hard to find balanced well. This AS3 Hybrid is the perfect combo. We sleep almost too deeply with difficulty waking up quickly. It has been a dream come true!!”
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best motion-isolating mattress for sex
Brooklyn Bedding Plank Firm Luxe
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best motion-isolating mattress for sex
Brooklyn Bedding Plank Firm Luxe
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JSYK, this flippable mattress is called the Plank for a reason—it really is supportive AF. Designed to be firm on one side and extra firm on the other, it features a thin layer of high-density comfort foam on both sides, which sandwich individually-encased coils to ensure unbeatable motion isolation. Just note that this one is preeeetty thick, so you may need to invest in deep-pocket sheets.
- Height: 13.25″
- Firmness: Firm on one side; extra firm on the other
- Sizes: Twin, twin XL, full, queen, king, Cal King
- Trial Period: 120 nights
THE REVIEW: “This mattress is a life-changer!” raves one tester. “I’m a heavier person, and the support this mattress provides is unbelievable. The firm plushness of this mattress is unlike anything I’ve slept on before. 10 out of 10 would recommend.”
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most supportive mattress for sex
Avocado Green Mattress
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most supportive mattress for sex
Avocado Green Mattress
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Latex mattresses are known for being super durable and highly breathable, and this eco-friendly mattress from Avocado checks both of those boxes. Under its organic cotton and wool cover, it contains a bouncy-yet-firm layer of Dunlop latex, which rests on a tall pocketed coil system to provide a pleasant lift. And for a lil more softness, you can opt to add on a pillow-top layer.
- Height: 11″
- Firmness: Firm
- Sizes: Twin, twin XL, full, queen, king, Cal king
- Trial Period: 120 nights
THE REVIEW: “Love love love this mattress!” reads one reviewer. “It is a firm mattress, but I wouldn’t explain it as hard, and there’s definitely some bounce and cushion in it. We both were having back or neck pain pretty regularly with our old spring mattress, and almost three months in, neither of us has experienced any back or neck pain after sleeping.”
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best splurge mattress for sex
Parachute Eco Mattress
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best splurge mattress for sex
Parachute Eco Mattress
For a traditional-feeling innerspring mattress that’s made with organic materials, this option from Parachute is calling your name. Topped with a quilted organic cotton cover, this mattress features a comfort layer of pure New Zealand wool, a transition layer of pressure-relieving pocketed microcoils, and a support layer of pocketed steel coils on top of a wool insulator pad. No, it’s not cheap, but it relieves pressure like a damn dream.
- Height: 12″
- Firmness: Firm
- Sizes: Twin, twin XL, full, queen, king, Cal king
- Trial period: 100 nights
THE REVIEW: As one tester writes, “I was coming to the Parachute mattress off of a cheap foam mattress I bought online that was resulting in pinched nerves in my back and other pains. I haven’t had any back pain since getting the new mattress. Plus, it’s just a beautiful thing. The coverings are plush and the springs feel sturdy but luxurious.”
What kind of mattress is best for sex?
As nice as it may sound to sleep on a puffy lil cloud, all-foam mattresses definitely aren’t the best choice for everyone, especially if you’re looking for something that’s more sex-friendly. When it comes to sex, hybrid mattresses are your best option, as they combine bouncy coil support cores with cushiony comfort layers (which can be made from polyfoam, memory foam, or—my personal fave option—latex rubber).
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How to choose the best mattress for sex
Getting a new mattress is an investment, so you’ll wanna make sure anything you buy is as good for snoozing as it is for boinking. A few things to keep in mind:
Consider the materials
Typically speaking, the more coils a mattress has, the more supportive it is, with individually-wrapped coils being the best option for absorbing motion and adapting to the body. And, ofc, the type of foam used in your mattress matters, too. Polyurethane foam, or poly-foam, tends to have a bouncier feel than memory foam and an open-cell structure to allow for better airflow, but since it’s not as dense as memory foam, it’s likely to degrade faster. Another alternative: latex foam, which sleeps cooler than memory foam and can be made with natural materials (unlike PU foam and memory foam, which are always synthetic).
Find the right firmness
Your go-to sleep position should also influence your mattress pick. Side sleepers do best with medium-soft to medium-firm mattresses, while back sleepers should look for a medium-firm to firm mattress. And while stomach sleepers definitely do best with a firm mattress, combination sleepers will wanna invest in a medium-firm mattress that facilitates easy movement throughout the night.
Read the reviews
One of the major benefits of purchasing a mattress online is that you’ll have hundreds and hundreds of (very) honest reviews to scroll through. Since sleep habits and mattresses are so personal, you should read as many of them as possible to get a good feel of what works for people with similar preferences.
Why trust ‘Cosmo’?
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Corinne Sullivan is an Editor at Cosmopolitan, where she covers a variety of beats, including lifestyle, entertainment, relationships, shopping, and more. She can tell you everything you need to know about the love lives of A-listers, the coziest bedsheets, and the sex toys actually worth your $$$. She is also the author of the 2018 novel Indecent. Follow her on Instagram for cute pics of her pup and bébé.